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Its not cheating, but it is..idk anymore *small update*

Anonymous
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In the years we've been together, my so has "chested on me"numerous times. As far as I know, its never been physical. I'm hanging on to the hope that its never been physical. The cheating ranges from video taping other women together (i wasnt even in the same state) to watching/showing on cam, to tonight. I was going through an app on his phone, couldn't find mine and wanted to look at porno, and I looked in his favorite photos. One caught my eye as weird, so I look through the comments, he commented saying his dick would be a better fit for her pussy, and to email him, and left his email. This particular email, is the ONLY email he has that he won't let me have access to.

I know a lot of you are going to tell me to leave him, but I really don't want to, I have no doubt I'm going to get bashed too, but I could really use a kind word right now
I'm sitting in bed with my baby in my lap crying and staring at his back.

Update: I told him this morning what I found, and that until he decides what he wants, and if its me, I'll just be sleeping on the couch ...

So, we've been talking (texting) all morning pretty much, and hes claiming he has no idea what I'm talking about, he can't remember his sn so it must not be him. Does he really think I don't recognize his email? Or the fact that it gives the option to delete or edit the comment? That only happens if it is your account
Posted by Anonymous on May. 24, 2012 at 4:23 AM
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MAXnBRYCESMomma
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:25 AM
Confront him. I think marriage counseling may be in order as well as counseling for him, sounds like he may have some sort of sexual addiction.
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jojo827
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:26 AM
You deserve better
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2012 at 4:27 AM
We want to do counseling, but can't afford it. I've been looking into it for years now


Quoting MAXnBRYCESMomma:

Confront him. I think marriage counseling may be in order as well as counseling for him, sounds like he may have some sort of sexual addiction.

thehickinhickor
by Platinum Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:28 AM
There not much we can say you won't leave. i bet you won't say anything at all time about this then one day your going to go nuts holding it all in.

ask yourself this if your little girl (if you have a girl or hell even your son). was living with someone that did the things he as done what would you say to them and what would you hope they would do. because what you are doing right now is teaching them what to do if they are ever in your shoes
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2012 at 4:28 AM
Doesn't seem like it. I have self esteem issues, they were slowly getting better, and then he does this.


Quoting jojo827:

You deserve better

MAXnBRYCESMomma
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:29 AM
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Try your county health department. A lot of churches offer free or very low cost counseling. Good luck.

Quoting Anonymous:

We want to do counseling, but can't afford it. I've been looking into it for years now




Quoting MAXnBRYCESMomma:

Confront him. I think marriage counseling may be in order as well as counseling for him, sounds like he may have some sort of sexual addiction.

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rphardwick
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:29 AM
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go get your broom and beat the hell out of him while he is sleeping .... the way I figure it you should atleast be able to get in 3 good whacks before he can be aware enough to start defending his self

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2012 at 4:31 AM
I plan to confront him tomorrow about it..I'm just tired of this shit. I'm wondering if making him leave the house for awhile would help any


Quoting thehickinhickor:

There not much we can say you won't leave. i bet you won't say anything at all time about this then one day your going to go nuts holding it all in.



ask yourself this if your little girl (if you have a girl or hell even your son). was living with someone that did the things he as done what would you say to them and what would you hope they would do. because what you are doing right now is teaching them what to do if they are ever in your shoes

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on May. 24, 2012 at 4:32 AM
Thanks
I needed the laugh :)


Quoting rphardwick:

go get your broom and beat the hell out of him while he is sleeping .... the way I figure it you should atleast be able to get in 3 good whacks before he can be aware enough to start defending his self


thehickinhickor
by Platinum Member on May. 24, 2012 at 4:34 AM
It will help make you stronger but it May make him feel like he as a free pass to cheat

Quoting Anonymous:

I plan to confront him tomorrow about it..I'm just tired of this shit. I'm wondering if making him leave the house for awhile would help any




Quoting thehickinhickor:

There not much we can say you won't leave. i bet you won't say anything at all time about this then one day your going to go nuts holding it all in.





ask yourself this if your little girl (if you have a girl or hell even your son). was living with someone that did the things he as done what would you say to them and what would you hope they would do. because what you are doing right now is teaching them what to do if they are ever in your shoes

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