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would you stay with someone who....eta. .....

Anonymous
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who after only dating about six months and you just moved in together had a disabling illness? where he couldn't drive and just needed a little help with everything....?

eta :i dunno if i can do this anymore. my daughter is 7,it is summer, our whole life is being spent driving and sitting and waiting in doctors offices and hospitals. all money goes to doctors bills and outrageous prescription costs. i can't work because i have to take care of him. i love him and i know it's not his fault, but i get Sooooooo frustrated. Im pregnant (since before the diagnoses ) and i need help, not another dependant. we moved 100 miles away to be closer to his family. ..i feel like a horrible person for thinking about leaving. ...
Posted by Anonymous on May. 24, 2012 at 8:22 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on May. 24, 2012 at 8:24 PM
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proudmommy690
by Ruby Member on May. 24, 2012 at 8:24 PM
sure...why not?
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CrazyLife1996
by on May. 24, 2012 at 8:24 PM
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It would depend on how I felt about him.
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meglennox
by Silver Member on May. 24, 2012 at 8:25 PM
If i moved in with someone, that means its serious. So yes, i would stay. But it wouldnt keep me there if our relationship ended.
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hautemama83
by Emerald Member on May. 24, 2012 at 8:26 PM
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If I loved them, yes.
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anotherhalf
by on May. 24, 2012 at 8:27 PM

Why would you be questioning it now after you've already moved in?

MIA0223
by Emerald Member on May. 24, 2012 at 8:28 PM
Married or engaged yes, I don't date though, lol.
If DH had got a disability 6 months in to our engagement I would still stay!
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lilbit53009
by on May. 24, 2012 at 8:29 PM
I'd assume I would know about the condition from the beginning and if I made the decision to move in...why would I just move out? So yea
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on May. 24, 2012 at 8:30 PM
How long have you been living together?
Ber-Lynn
by Count Me In on May. 24, 2012 at 8:33 PM
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 Yes, why not? My df let me move in and I'm the disabled one. I can drive but I do need help with stuff depending on the day. All that matters is if you love the person.

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