update on page 53 pregnant by a 12 year old! wtf ETA 12 weeks
Eta. I just talked to her mom. She said she suspected as much and isn't surprised as shes been spending a lot of time with the boy down the street. Well why didn't you have the talk with her. Or tell me so i could. I had to hang up on her before i said something i regret
I dropped my niece off at school a bit ago and came home. I can't think. I got her up early and made her show me where this boy lives. The boy said she told him yesterday morning but he thought she was joking. His family is in no position to help. His mom is single an unemployed, he has three younger sisters. The mom wants her to keep it! Yup, she actually had the audacity to say that. The boy is scared shitless. And believe me, i gave them both an earful. I guess i need to make her a doctors appointment and call her counselor.
Thanks for being understanding. For those saying i shouldn't be upset and yell. Im her guardian not her friend. Wait til your kid comes home 14 and pregnant!
I called a pregnancy center i found online and they do everything. Testing, counseling, adoption, help you after the baby is born. They told me i could bring her in asap. I asked her moms sister to take her, cause honestly im still pissed. D, her other aunt talked to her and the social worker. Shes 12 weeks along. They talked about all her options. And the social worker gave D a bunch of brochures for us to look over. Theres a home for pregnant and teen moms thats a few hours away. The brochure looked good, idk. Im standing firm in my decision that she can not live with me and keep her baby. D said she talked to her on the way home, and shes definitely not thinking realistically. She said she does not want to abort it, and i can respect that. But she doesn't know how hard parenting will be. I honestly feel that adoption is best for all of us. I dont want to pressure her into it. And i will respect whatever decision she makes. 12 weeks is far, and i guess we need to make a decision asap. She has nother appointment with the social worker next Friday, so im going to see if i can go with her. Id really like to have a decision made by then.
Thanks to those of you who have been so supportive. I took her in to try and give her a chance. Now i feel like all of the energy i put in was just a waste.