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There is no good reason to make a baby with a man that you aren't married to EDIT

Anonymous
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but plan to play house with. Just saying! 

If he isn't good enough to love and live with forever by marriage then how is he good enough to impregnate you? 


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For the ones screaming they never wanted to marry and if this is the case with you and SO and you both have verbally committed to a longeterm marriage like committment then yay for you but if it's all the same then why not be married?

For the ones using  your beautiful child as the reason then yes your child is beautifuk but you do realize you made them from a broken home and if you are not longer with the daddy and you die, that child is back to custody of a man not worth marrying? 

Posted by Anonymous on May. 28, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on May. 28, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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not all guys that get married to a girl are good enough to have a kid with either.  

over40bride
by Gold Member on May. 28, 2012 at 12:11 AM
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Someones looking for a fight. *rolls eyes*

SweetPea05
by on May. 28, 2012 at 12:11 AM
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Other than we love each other very much and want a baby.

Not a good reason at all.

parentalrights1
by on May. 28, 2012 at 12:11 AM
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Some people want to live together and not be married. Who cares? It's about what they want not what everyone else thinks they should want.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 28, 2012 at 12:12 AM
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Wow..... most woman don't want the commitment with a Guy but wants a baby by that Guy. Can you say a cat fight?
Kitsun
by Ruby Member on May. 28, 2012 at 12:12 AM
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Bcuz I felt like it
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Ber-Lynn
by Count Me In on May. 28, 2012 at 12:13 AM
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Hmm so when I got pregnant I should have just had an abortion since we weren't married? Surprises do happen, anytime you have sex you take the chance of getting pregnant, no birth control is 100%.
CheyanneW
by on May. 28, 2012 at 12:13 AM
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What if you just want the baby but not the man? LOL!
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kryptomom
by Gold Member on May. 28, 2012 at 12:13 AM
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I am confused why women won't commit to a marriage, but will commit to a lifelong attachment of a shared child.

randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on May. 28, 2012 at 12:13 AM
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Some people don't believe in marriage.  Why the hell is that so hard to grasp?  Just because it works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone.

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