He has adhd. He is on meds but his memory is really bad. He doesnt remember to do his chores but he remembers to get candy,popcorn, chips etc. He remembers to ask someone else can he go somewhere but says nothing to me so when its time to go I look like a fool. His chore is to sweep and wash the dishes in the evening. If he has to clean I feel like he goes out of his way to do nasty stuff. Like he wash the dishes cut his hand and bled in the dish water. Sneeze on the dishes. If I switch his chore to something else he does the same stuff. I thought people that have adhd can do simple task like clean. What am I missing?