I'm not lazy, but I have decided that's not what I want to put my energy into. I spend a lot of time with my toddler. I make many of our meals fresh daily, breakfast, lunch, dinner and his 3 snacks. I exercise and I make time to sleep at least 7 hours a day. What is messy? It's relative. When I watch Hoarders, I feel very neat, but if I go to my friend's homes where everything is dusted and mopped daily and everything is in their place I feel like a failure and like people must be grossed out by my house. How is your house?