am I the only one with a guy like this!ETA?
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Does your SO eat more food then you and then bag on you for the food in your plate!
Its fucking annoying as shit!
Example: yesterday i told him to get supper. He got subway. He got each of us a foot long sub, himsrlf 2 drinks and 2 bags of chips.
He came home- ate his sub, drank both his drinks, ate his chips and then looked at me. He said he was still hungry. So i told him to go make himself something. I went to the bathroom, came out and he was eating my chips, drinking my pop and starting on my chocolate bar.
I said, 'wtf man! Eat your own shit.'
He looked at me and said, 'shut up, im bigger then you. I need to eat more.'
I told him we cant afford it for him to eat that much. Because we really cant! He eats about 6 MEALS a day. I EAT ONE. I saved half my sub- thankgod he doesnt like my kind.
Its freakin bs! When i tell him to slow down on eating so much he tells me to shut up.
Ha yea okay buddy but i spend about 600-700$ in FOOD a month for him, me and a 2 year old.
He got up at 4 pm and said, 'order something. Im hungry.' Umm no.. theres food. Eat that. Im tired of spending everything on fucking food!
He HATES healthy meals. So i often make 2 meals for everything because i dont want dd eating crap all the time. He make chicken with noodles and sauce (forget the name) i had half a bowl and he ate the whole fucking thing! I mean a HUGE pot of it- then ate mine! Wtf! He eats 3 hotdogs every 2 hours. Then complains on how fat he is. No shit man. You eat like theres no tmr.
If i put my foot down and tell him no, its a HUGE fight. He says 'SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP! JUST FUCK OFF.' like hes the victim! I have to starve myself most days BECAUSE of him. Im fucking sick of this shit.
ETA: okay so, sorry i couldnt answer you all. Im getting some of the same questions really. So i thought i would just answer here.
First im not on fs. I am in charge of food. I spend about 150-250 a week on food. My dd DOES not follow his eating habit. She LOVES fruit and veggies. She barely eats but she ALWAYS has food. If i dont buy something- he goes and gets it. I DO have meal plans. He doesnt care about them. His dr said he has no health problems but is borderlune- which is why i cut junk snacks out. Which he lost 50 lbs so far. He walks to work instead of using the bus- so he says he needs to eat this much for energy.... yea i know i do the eye roll to. He said he is just constantly hungry. I told him he can get control over it. Like i control it. No we do not eat out a lot. Maybe once a month max three times. (Birthdays, anniversaries ect..). I am NOT making fun of him- he thinks im just making fun if him. Im really not. The amiunt of groceries i buy is just crazy for a family of 3 with 2 people who barely eat. Yes i do have a chocolate stash which i only crave on my period- otherwise i do not eat it. Yes im addicted to soda, ill admit that to.
I live in canada- food is more here. So i just wanted to update all that! I DID try and hide veggies in his food- and he spits it out, gets angry then makes something else.
Its fucking annoying as shit!
Example: yesterday i told him to get supper. He got subway. He got each of us a foot long sub, himsrlf 2 drinks and 2 bags of chips.
He came home- ate his sub, drank both his drinks, ate his chips and then looked at me. He said he was still hungry. So i told him to go make himself something. I went to the bathroom, came out and he was eating my chips, drinking my pop and starting on my chocolate bar.
I said, 'wtf man! Eat your own shit.'
He looked at me and said, 'shut up, im bigger then you. I need to eat more.'
I told him we cant afford it for him to eat that much. Because we really cant! He eats about 6 MEALS a day. I EAT ONE. I saved half my sub- thankgod he doesnt like my kind.
Its freakin bs! When i tell him to slow down on eating so much he tells me to shut up.
Ha yea okay buddy but i spend about 600-700$ in FOOD a month for him, me and a 2 year old.
He got up at 4 pm and said, 'order something. Im hungry.' Umm no.. theres food. Eat that. Im tired of spending everything on fucking food!
He HATES healthy meals. So i often make 2 meals for everything because i dont want dd eating crap all the time. He make chicken with noodles and sauce (forget the name) i had half a bowl and he ate the whole fucking thing! I mean a HUGE pot of it- then ate mine! Wtf! He eats 3 hotdogs every 2 hours. Then complains on how fat he is. No shit man. You eat like theres no tmr.
If i put my foot down and tell him no, its a HUGE fight. He says 'SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP! JUST FUCK OFF.' like hes the victim! I have to starve myself most days BECAUSE of him. Im fucking sick of this shit.
ETA: okay so, sorry i couldnt answer you all. Im getting some of the same questions really. So i thought i would just answer here.
First im not on fs. I am in charge of food. I spend about 150-250 a week on food. My dd DOES not follow his eating habit. She LOVES fruit and veggies. She barely eats but she ALWAYS has food. If i dont buy something- he goes and gets it. I DO have meal plans. He doesnt care about them. His dr said he has no health problems but is borderlune- which is why i cut junk snacks out. Which he lost 50 lbs so far. He walks to work instead of using the bus- so he says he needs to eat this much for energy.... yea i know i do the eye roll to. He said he is just constantly hungry. I told him he can get control over it. Like i control it. No we do not eat out a lot. Maybe once a month max three times. (Birthdays, anniversaries ect..). I am NOT making fun of him- he thinks im just making fun if him. Im really not. The amiunt of groceries i buy is just crazy for a family of 3 with 2 people who barely eat. Yes i do have a chocolate stash which i only crave on my period- otherwise i do not eat it. Yes im addicted to soda, ill admit that to.
I live in canada- food is more here. So i just wanted to update all that! I DID try and hide veggies in his food- and he spits it out, gets angry then makes something else.
Posted by Anonymous on May. 28, 2012 at 5:07 PM
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*Lyssa Lou*
on May. 28, 2012 at 5:22 PM
It sounds like your SO needs to go to the Dr and see why he is hungry all of the time.. Or something.. Otherwise... Sounds like a jerk TBH
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Ruby Member
on May. 28, 2012 at 5:24 PM
true.
Quoting TheJs:
6 small portion meals, not 6 massive meals.
Quoting notjstasocermom:
no mine doesn't do that, but honestly its much healthier to eat 6 times a day than just one
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on May. 28, 2012 at 5:25 PM
I would be disgusted and probably throw up in my mouth around him.
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on May. 28, 2012 at 5:26 PM
sorry thought of that after I posted.
Quoting Anonymous:
Oh i know, its healthier to have 6 small meals a day. Im talking full on meals. Like 3-5 hot dogs, and a pile of fries. Or 2-3 pork chops and fries. Or a whole box of kd.
Quoting notjstasocermom:
no mine doesn't do that, but honestly its much healthier to eat 6 times a day than just one
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on May. 28, 2012 at 5:26 PM
The last line is what I was going to say
Quoting calusari:My husband is almost twice my size, and if there is food left on the kids' plates when they are DONE, he will eat it so it doesn't go to waste.
I'd be more concerned about how your husband talks to you than how much he is eating.
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by Anonymous
on May. 28, 2012 at 5:26 PM
He needs medical intervention. His craving for food may be an indication of underlying physical condition or depression. Why don't you start eating healthy like lots of veggies and fruits? That way he won't beg for your food and even if he does, it'll be good for his health.
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