I don't have the same level of respect for military wives.
YOUR spouse serves for our country not you. Its not a sacrifice YOU had to make. There are plenty of other men out there. I don't take credit for my husbands job which takes him away for weeks at a time. You are not an extension of your husbands job, quit claiming how hard it is to be "that kind of wife". You had to know he was going to leave, risk death ect <which as an American I am indebted to> but you meh, your just a side dish of the main course.