I have been living with my boyfriend for 8 months now. His parents like to spend a lot of time with one of his sons and his mom enrolled him in daycare where she works so she can see him more. We have him every other week. Most weeks he goes to daycare 4 to 5 days while my bf works. Well this week we didn't take him yesterday or today. She shows up on her lunch break to see him at our home. She was checking in on me because she doesn't think I can handle my 2 and his son at the same time. Well my bf and my 2 were taking a nap and I took his son to the store for diapers.
She was pissed he wasn't here and said, well I don't pay 4 dollars a day for daycare so he can spend the day with Kristina and slammed the door and left. My bf tried calling her to talk and she started complaining about how its too much for me and she's not sure I can handle the kids... blah blah. Bf said, yes she can, she does a great job and she says...
"She's still married for God's sake!"
Now wtf does that have yo do with my parenting skills? I love my bf and he loves me. He's been in my kids' lives since they were born (he was my xh's friend). I've been in his kids' lives since they were born also.
Why am I being judged for still being married when we are in court for divorce? My xh is dating. And its not like I even ruined my marriage. My xh was cheating on me for years! I deserve better than that!
Bf and I have a wonderful relationship and we actually had our first mention of possible marriage some day talk a couple nights ago!
Is it just me, or is it really a big deal that our divorce hasn't been signed by a judge yet?