The homeless shelter's staff we donate to is stealing off of us. What would you do?
So me, my DH and another couple are the main suppliers to the local homeless shelter. Me and DH provide paper products. Paper towel, toilet paper, napkins, tampons, pads etc. The other couple does dish soap, regular soap, shampoo etc.
So we told the staff that whenever they are running low to give us a call and we will drop off supplies. It's always once a month, usually the 1st of every month. So for the last three months they have been calling three times a month saying they are really low and need more supplies. We we found out that the other couple stopped donating. Ok, we picked up their slack until they can find someone else to help enough. Well come to find out three of the staff members are taking lots of stuff home for themselves. That is why the other couple stopped donating. I confirmed this to be true. I called the the manager and told them and they said they can't do anything about it because no one else will accept the job or volunteer so they can not fire them at this time.
All of this time the manager fucking knew and 1. didn't tell us. 2. Is not doing anything about it. 3. Is fine with us donating more even though it's being used for their staff. 4. There are fucking children in this shelter that are going without because of their staff. I am so mad right now that I feel like telling them to find someone else but if I do that then the kids are the ones who suffer.
What would you do? I feel like handing out the supplies to each individual person or family but that is not allowed. Well neither is stealing but the shelter seems to be fine with that. We're spending a lot of money a month too, it's not like it's just 20 dollars here and there.