See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
I have a pretty decent marriage, we have occasional arguments but nothing major. My DH travels for work, and last night I called him so the kids could tell him goodnight (like they do every night he isn't home). He answers, tells them goodnight, and told me he would call me back as soon as he was done shooting pool (he was at a pool hall having a couple of drinks with a co-worker). He called me back a little over an hour later to tell me goodnight, and told me he was going to bed because he had to wake up early this morning. No biggie. So I checked the bank account like I do every night before I go to bed, and saw where he spent money at the pool hall, checked everything else to see what bills had cleared, and went to bed.
Woke up this morning, paid a couple more bills, checked the bank account again, and noticed that he went back to the pool hall after I had last talked him. Personally, I could careless how late he stays out, especially at a pool hall, but why lie to me about it?? There was no reason for it. So of course, I called him out on it when he called me this morning, and asked him why he would lie. He claimed at first he didn't, but then admitted he did and started cussing me out and told me it was none of my business what he does. I tried calming him down, telling him that I didn't want to argue about it, my feelings were just hurt by him lying to me, and he told me I was a "waste of f*cking space".
My husband NEVER talks to me like that, even when we do argue. I waited about an hour, tried to call him back and he blocked my number. I am just really hurt. and pissed. I feel I have a right to call him out on this kind of stuff, and lying is never okay. So was I overreacting by even mentioning it to him?