My husband - update the Psycho left me a message on FB!
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has a stalker. Back story he ran into a girl he dated before he met me, they had few dates sex was involved, the girl ended the relationship no big deal he started dating another girl then met me a few weeks later. Fast forward we have known each other nine years married almost 8. He runs into the woman I guess about 3 months ago and they have a hey what's up kind of convo. ok. She looks him up on FB ok. My husband does not really do the whole FB thing he runs a business and works full time he goes on once in a great while. Apparently after they ran into each other she started sending him FB messages. well since he is hardly on FB he has no idea. She gets his cell number off his business web page and starts calling / texting him and I guess they start to get into screaming fighting matches. I say I guess because up until a week ago I had no idea any of this was going on. He didn't want to involve me in this drama. Well she crossed a line and threatened our kids so he felt the need to tell me. She says he left her high and dry 9 years ago by running off and getting married. I have seen / heard all the messages and that is the gist of it. She wants to have sex with him one last time and she says if he does he will see what he is missing and leave me. um yeah ok. She doesn't know that I know. I have made his FB private blocked her from his phone FB and all that stuff because he doesn't know how to do that. Today she sent an email through his business email account on his website, she is going to tell me all about their affair they have been having..The one that doesn't exist, she is crazy. I asked my husband's best friend and his wife about her to get a different perspective and he has told me she has been in and out of a mental hospital and on heavy duty meds for years.
My husband works 5:15am-5:15pm then goes and works for his own business ( currently this involves renovating something at my job and building an addition for friends of ours so yes I do know where he is 24/7).
She has not contacted me personally yet. I am very well known in my job/community so fairly easy to track down. Should I wait for her to contact me? Can I get a restraining order on what I have so far the messages emails?
Look I don't know what I have to tell you for you to believe me that your husband posted on craigslist to find women. He told me he was single, took me to a house in his gold colored Sebring convertible and had sex with me. Plain as that. I was trying to not be as harsh about it J****.. The sick part is he was having sex with other people too and he gave me hpv.... I thought you should know. He is spreading an STD and when he would leave Amherst he'd come to my house. I want you to know, because he is not an honest man and you deserve better. I know you went to the party....bc he called me when you were there. Said his ex wife was going. I could tell you that you have pine floors and chickens and a lizard or iguana. That your daughters are **** and ****. That one just had a birthday this past spring. look, I am not some psycho girl... I am a woman who was told by your husband that he wasn't married that he was a single father and that you hated him. That for years he tried to make you happy and you didn't care or deserve him. He talked so badly about you. And on top of it, he gave me an STD. I am a very clean person and **** was only the second person I slept with and without a condom. So please, take heed and protect yourself. I will leave you alone.
Because she's crazy it's made up in her head. Perhaps if I did believe her he would go running into her arms? Why did she wait almost a month to contact me? After I made all his stuff private ( which I have access to) She's crazy and other people have confirmed it.
Quoting Sweet_Britt:
why would she tell your husband she's going to tell you about the affair if they weren't having one??
IDK, sounds like he's cheating, or was cheating and broke it off.
Well, I would send a clip of someone laughing and pointing at her! I wouldn't say a single word! I would let the clip say it all.
But I would keep everything she sends. If she is threatening your family, as in she wants to do harm, then yes you NEED to contact the police.
That's the ugliest name everrrr!!!