Not too long ago, but awhile back I went with one of my bestfriends to visit her church!! Its a rather small church so alot of the people there kinda know each other pretty well, I think! We wound up going back to her pastors house (with her uncle, as well) to have lunch that same day! We all had a nice time, her Pastor was cool, seemed like a down to earth guy, I have never met a Pastor that was as cool as he was..most of them would NEVER allow you to get that close to them as far as inviting you to their home. Anyway, he later asked me to put my number in one of his cellphones (to add with the others at the church)..so I did and thought nothing of it! We were all eventually going to have Bible study together. Ok, so to the point of my story>> Later on that day or the next day, he started texting me asking about bible study and when we were gonna make a time and date. I text back that I didn't know and I would possibly let him know (I was only a visitor and he knew that). I have been back to church with my friend maybe about 5 times after that. He continues to text me saying how beautiful I am, and that I am "so fine" and "gorgeous" The other day he sent me a text telling me he wanted me to pay him a visit and that he would love my company to watch movies with him, because he was bored, I didn't respond!! I feel uncomfortable at times, but sometimes I just text him back thank you and that's all! I haven't told my bff anything and because I don't want people to think I am trying to come one to him, but I have the text messages to prove it!! Yesterday he sent me a message saying that he was gonna buy me a bluetooth and that I can come over to get it from him, but I didn't respond!!
I feel if I say something to someone, he may lose his career as being a Pastor, but if I tell him to pretty much leave me alone he may be upset at me and this may cause chaos! Yes I know I'm grown, but I still feel in a state of confusion behind all this :(