Never thought I'd be the other woman
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I feel like such a dumbass
He never told me he was married until I asked. This is how it came about...we were talking about being more "serious" and he goes, I could see myself being with you, and in the midst of this convo I go, wait you aren't married are you?
Keep in mind, I am 20 he is 21, never would think to ask that for our age range, so I never thought to ask.
He says yes he is married, keep in mind, no signs of this wife. He lives with roommates, never mentions her, nothing. So I am like blind to this.
We went places together, talked all night, went on vacation together, everything, so it's just a huge shock.
But it finally hit me, and now I am so torn up about it. I don't want to feel anything else for him, I just want to move on, don't know how.
From now on thats the first question to ask. Just never assumed someone who lives like they are a single college kid is married. But lesson learned.
Quoting Anonymous:
So your just now asking if he is married. Sorry but that's one of the first things I asked my husband. He said no but I asked around still.
I was almost another woman. As soon as I found that out, I said, fuck that, never spoke to him again. He wasn't even going to tell me either, I found out from someone else, which I had asked him before if he was with anyone, and he told me he was single. We didn't really date, just hung out after class, had lunch, stuff like that. I talked to him for like 3 months, and we started to get a little more serious, then someone told me hes married.....no thank you....I'm sorry you're going though this. It kinda sucks
are you ok with another woman calling your husband "hun" or "babe"