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We are giving our baby up for adoption. Ask me anything.

Anonymous
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I am 20 weeks pregnant and we are giving our baby up for adoption. We are still looking at families and it will be an open adoption.
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 3, 2012 at 11:57 AM
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NatashaOlivia
by Silver Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 8:54 AM
I think it's great that you know you can't support a child right now. Good luck to you momma :)

Quoting Anonymous:

We are both living with my bfs parents and aren't financially stable. Both trying to finish school.



Quoting NatashaOlivia:

Sorry if this has been answered - but what made you decide to go down the adoption route? Do you think you'll change your mind/regret it?
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couponluv72
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 8:55 AM
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Just want to say bless your heart for the joy you will be bringing a childless couple. you are making an exteme sacrifice for the good of your child. that is a real mother

Nay26
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 8:57 AM
This :)


Quoting KMadsen:

It takes a strong woman to do that. Hope you find the perfect family  :)


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abbymomo2
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 8:57 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

We are aware of how hard this be, but I disagree. We are making the right choice.

Quoting Beenhereforever:

You wil regret it deeply

No matter what decision you make (as long as it's a legal decision), as long as you and your bf feel it's the right one, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It WILL be hard as I'm sure you know, but do what YOU feel is best for you, your family and the baby....

vgmomof2grtkds
by Bronze Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 8:59 AM

Best of luck to you.  I know that can't be an easy decision to make.  Next time use birth control so as to not find yourself in this situation again!

Randi02
by Gold Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 9:05 AM
This.

I can't imagine giving up a child after already having children. It's not that child's fault they were conceived.

Hopefully this baby has a good life with their new family.


Quoting Anonymous:

Wow, I can only imagine how the kid will feel. Hopefully the family eventually cuts ties. I can only imagine what it would feel like to know your Bio parents where ok enough to keep their first kid but not you.... good luck.



Quoting Anonymous:

Yes we are. It was a very hard decision but this is what we need to do.





Quoting Anonymous:

So you already have a child, yet giving up your second one? ?







Quoting Anonymous:

We are not ready to have another. I was on birth control. We are living at home with my boyfriends parents and just can't afford it. I need to finish school and so does my byfriend.









Quoting MWV85:

Why?











Duh.
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Lovemyfamilyof8
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 9:36 AM
Good luck, but having a child and putting one up for adoption seems selfish. I personally find it sad. Btw open adoption is bad for everyone!
hannahblevins
by Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 10:02 AM
Can you private message me?
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Lanab2005
by Bronze Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 10:04 AM

 Good luck to you. I am sure that you have thought about this long and hard.

Shelley927
by Bronze Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 10:38 AM

my hubby  and i are available.........but why are you giving you child up?

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