I have major concerns about a widower that recently asked me out on a date. We met online and he told me that his wife committed suicide the end of March of this year. He actually found her hanging :( He has a 1.5 yr old and a 2 yr old. I'm divorced and have a 3 yr old. I know everyone has a different time table for grieving but I just feel it's too soon for him to be dating. Do I have a valid reason for being hesitant?