omg so tired of my mom smothering me over this baby!
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on Jun. 5, 2012 at 9:23 PM
I had to be mean about it. It's my brand new baby, I want to hold her and I don't want to pass her around to anybody but dh. Plus, giving birth takes a lot out of you! I'm not up forentertaining anyone after delivering a human being! My mil pushed to be there and I finally told her, flat out, it wasn't happening. Dd wasn't her baby, she could wait until we got home. I let my sister come the day after, but only because she was watching ds.
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on Jun. 5, 2012 at 9:24 PM
Wow. You seem so angry. I'm glad both of my daughters asked me to be a part of all my Grandchildrens' births.

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on Jun. 5, 2012 at 10:18 PM
Nurses will be your best friend. Just make it very clear to them you do not want her there and they will take care of it for you. And if she is bringing your dd to meet her new brother your hubby could meet her at in the waiting room or at the entrance to the hospital.
Quoting MicheleJM:I'd just see if the nurse and doctors can tell her you need to rest and no visitors for such and such amount of time. Let them be the bad guys. If she is bringing dd5 to the hospital to see her new brother you really can't expect her to not want to be there too. Maybe the nurse can "throw her out" too after a certain period of time, I'm sorry I mean ask her politely to leave as you need rest.
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- MicheleJM
on Jun. 5, 2012 at 9:21 PMI'd just see if the nurse and doctors can tell her you need to rest and no visitors for such and such amount of time. Let them be the bad guys. If she is bringing dd5 to the hospital to see her new brother you really can't expect her to not want to be there too. Maybe the nurse can "throw her out" too after a certain period of time, I'm sorry I mean ask her politely to leave as you need rest.