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Would you date him?

Posted by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:04 PM
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My ex, that is? He is over weight, skips work due to 'back issues', and has 5 kids 7 yrs old to 3 weeks old. 4 of his 5 kids have medical special needs or mental special needs. His first wife cheated on him and I kicked him out due to 'hormonal instability'. That is his story and he plays a good victim. He wants sex a lot and someone to care for the kids and him. Would you date him? What was the thing that made you say yes or no?
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laurenb1
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:06 PM
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No. Because I want 1 more kid and not 5 step kids. I'm not interested in baby mama drama
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mommytoeandb
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:06 PM
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Nooooo...too much baggage.
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PeaceMuch
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:07 PM

 Too much baggage for me

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:09 PM

No I wouldn't but it seems like those are the guys that gets the girl.

sissyboogs
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:11 PM
Nope. I won't date a man that has kids, and I don't care for lazy men.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:11 PM

NO! and my reason isn't because i want a man without a past it's because I don't want 6 more babys to take care of... i mean really a man who dosen't work half the time and 5 kids 4 of witch have disablitys or speacil needs. yeah i could probably handle one kid with speacil needs but 4 all once. hmmm i'll pass honey... thanks anyway....

DuchessScrat
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:12 PM

I wouldn't mind lots of sex or care if he was somewhat overweight, but everything else is deal-breaker.

Memigen
by Silver Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:13 PM

No, too much baggage. But then again people dont exactly disclose everything about themselves every time they meet and begin to talk to someone either.

Kenre
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:13 PM
His first was interesting, or so I thought. Turns out he was a good victim role player. Wish I could apologize to her.

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No. Because I want 1 more kid and not 5 step kids. I'm not interested in baby mama drama
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sweetmissy_05
by Gold Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:14 PM

No just doesn't seem like someone I would want to date. And the ex drama too.....

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