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My ex, that is? He is over weight, skips work due to 'back issues', and has 5 kids 7 yrs old to 3 weeks old. 4 of his 5 kids have medical special needs or mental special needs. His first wife cheated on him and I kicked him out due to 'hormonal instability'. That is his story and he plays a good victim. He wants sex a lot and someone to care for the kids and him. Would you date him? What was the thing that made you say yes or no?
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by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:04 PM
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HaleyCovington
by Gold Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:30 PM
Quoting Memigen:




Aw. Thank you!
Zangum
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:30 PM

How do I say this politely...HELL NO!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:31 PM
Literally too much baggage.
Kenre
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:54 PM
He had a good military job and only one kid who is special needs. The other 4 are mine and his. I thought his work ethic was what I saw while in the Navy. I kept thinking that it would come back. Then I met a few his friends from before military. Found out he wins the lazy award. Felt obligated by then but he cheated on me and I kicked him out.

Quoting Anonymous:

No. But then again I wouldn't have had any children with him either. What made you say yes?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:55 PM
HELL NO what a fat ass slob loser!
Bigmetalchicken
by Ruby Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:55 PM

No. because he sounds like a loser.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:58 PM

If I was single I would steer clear of someone like this.

bremery
by Bronze Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:02 PM
I currently am married to a man with kids and love him to pieces, but if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't have gotten involved. One bio mother is enough, let alone two. Then to have 5 children and a man with no work ethic...no effin way!!!!
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lwalker270
by Ruby Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:05 PM

No, I wouldn't. 

I'm really tired and when I first read this I thought it said, skips to work due to 'back issues'.  I had to re-read it.  Heh heh.

jonellg
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:07 PM

you lost me at "he is over weight"

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