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Would you date him?

Posted by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 5:04 PM
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My ex, that is? He is over weight, skips work due to 'back issues', and has 5 kids 7 yrs old to 3 weeks old. 4 of his 5 kids have medical special needs or mental special needs. His first wife cheated on him and I kicked him out due to 'hormonal instability'. That is his story and he plays a good victim. He wants sex a lot and someone to care for the kids and him. Would you date him? What was the thing that made you say yes or no?
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ColesMommy63005
by Bronze Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:08 PM
Ew no. After reading the first 2 lines I had my mind made up. Good thing he's your ex!
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.not.angel.
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:10 PM

 No. Because I'm married.

luvlivelaugh
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:12 PM
Pretty much everything you posted is why I wouldn't date him.
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daughteroftruth
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:13 PM

No, everything you said made me say no.  He is overweight so he doesn't care about his health, he has 5 kids but he doesn't work, so he is not supporting his children (dead beat? no thanks), and when you say hormonal instability I assume mood swings and such, no thank you.  And I don't deal with people who play the victim, I have no tolerance for it. 

Miss-B
by ♥Divalicious♥ on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:14 PM
Nope!
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Kenre
by Gold Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:24 PM
No, he claims I have mood swings and kicked him out because of one. Truth is I caught him on dating/cheating sites and kicked his lazy butt out. He doesnt understand why I did it, though, because I am the 'messed up one'.

Quoting daughteroftruth:

No, everything you said made me say no.  He is overweight so he doesn't care about his health, he has 5 kids but he doesn't work, so he is not supporting his children (dead beat? no thanks), and when you say hormonal instability I assume mood swings and such, no thank you.  And I don't deal with people who play the victim, I have no tolerance for it. 

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queentroll117
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:25 PM

 hell no. too much going on in his life. I would be almost forgotten.

i.love.my.life
by Arika on Jun. 6, 2012 at 6:26 PM
No, sounds disgusting and like a drama queen.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 8, 2012 at 11:45 PM

Question is: If he's such a loser, why are you obsessed with him enough to ask people if they would date him?  I think you are both "messed up".

kaffedrikke
by Gold Member on Jun. 8, 2012 at 11:47 PM
Only of he won the.mega million lottery and gave it all to me!!
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