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I am upset, and maybe I shouldn't be, what do you think?

Anonymous
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My wedding was 3 months ago, most of my brides maids were my cousins. Well now one of them is getting married, she is going to have 3 bridesmaids, all of them were my bridesmaids. I just found out that she is having them all wear the dresses, accessories and shoes they wore for my wedding and I actually designed the dresses and had them custom made (they just paid for the material, I paid the seamstress for her work). Then I find out she is using the same venue as I used. I spend a lot of time planning my wedding and it does piss me off that she is copying me. My mom said that my wedding is over and done with, everyone had a great time and it was beautiful, her doing this is not going to take away from my wedding, it's just going to make her's look really tacky to those who came to mine (which is about half her guests). Would this upset you?

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 6, 2012 at 8:59 PM
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Young_mommie20
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:00 PM
I'd be LIVID.
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WhitleyLyles
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:01 PM
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Yes, it honestly would.
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catrig
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:01 PM

Yes. 

3Aces2012
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:02 PM
I'd b pissedddddd
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Ang9403
by Silver Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:02 PM
Yes
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yzaguirre1986
by Silver Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:02 PM
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Hmmm no not really ! U should be honor she trying to copy you! It sounds like she is jealous of you ! Don't worry about it! Like ur mon said she is going to look tacky !
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mamadrama15
by on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:03 PM
Yea I'd be pissed but your mom is right.
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darcibeisheim
by Silver Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:04 PM
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 I would find it annoying, but just like your mom said, it will look tacky on her part.

Maybe you should wear your dress from your wedding also? lol

lovelife350
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:04 PM

I think you are over reacting a little bit. the venue i would probably be a little upset but She won't be getting married for a while. honestly, people don't remember your wedding as much as the person getting married. also the bridemaids are probably just happy they don't have to spend money on a new dress. maybe one of them couldn't afford a new one, so they thought it would help her out 

Miranda1127
by Platinum Member on Jun. 6, 2012 at 9:05 PM
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 No, the only person a repeat event is going to hurt is the repeat host.

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