My birthday is on Saturday, and I told my dh that im done planning my own birthdays. He said he'd plan it, no problem. He said he was glad I was letting him plan it. That was a month ago and today Is Thursday. Nothing has been planned at all. I know he's not doing a surprise party because everyone keeps calling me asking me what we're doing. Im really sad that he couldn't do this for me. He's a great husband, a great father, but a little dense when it comes to this stuff. So I guess im not doing anything for my birthday again.