Do you any of you wonderful ladies ever wish or dream to be the 'trophy wife' or your own version of it? Or do some of you already play the part? Don't laugh but I would like to be the Mother that some people 'envy' I guess you could say. I know it probably sounds stupid, but I want to be the kept up nice looking Mother. I want to be apart of my kids' PTA in their school when they are old enough to be there, I want to be the soccer mom back and forth to functions and events, I want to be the wife that my husband can only dream of having. I want all of this but I feel like it's so silly and that it will never happen. Mind you, I am young, 20 y/o. This is just the picture I have had when I thought about having kids and starting a family. If some of you consider yourself a 'trophy wife' what do you do to keep these things realistic?