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Dear Diary,

Anonymous
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I just got into a blow out with my husband, I believe I'm pushing him away. :-/ He and a classmate seem pretty "close" which bothers me, when we were kids he cheated on my multiple times, last one being when I had our first daughter.
We have grown matured and moved on from that. But now this friendship has me acting a sorts of crazy.
One day on break at school they him K the one I'm threatened by and another classmate smoked Pot in her car. Now he has finished school a week ago and started his intern. K texts him to see how he was doing and that the class misses him. He responds by "It's going great I miss the class, especially you and A < another classmate> this made me upset, I told him I have a gut feeling there is more to that friendship.

He now says I'm taking away from his accomplishment by accusing him of infidelity. He then said he is seriously doubting our marriage because of the little trust I have in him.
I think I messed up.

What should I do?

-Confused & Hurt
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:09 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:11 AM
I am confused. Is he a teacher or a student?
jas_momof2
by Ruby Member on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:12 AM

How much are you harping on him about this?  If you've only mentioned it once and he flew into defensive mode, you have something to worry about.  If you're constantly on him about it and he's at the end of his rope, then yeah that would be on you.

Counselling?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:12 AM
He's a student -nursing school

Quoting Anonymous:

I am confused. Is he a teacher or a student?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:12 AM
It's me constantly accusing him

Quoting jas_momof2:

How much are you harping on him about this?  If you've only mentioned it once and he flew into defensive mode, you have something to worry about.  If you're constantly on him about it and he's at the end of his rope, then yeah that would be on you.

Counselling?

alwayswilling
by on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:12 AM

follow what your heart tells you!

AngryBob
by Platinum Member on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:14 AM
Ugh, pink font. Bump.
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alwayswilling
by on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:15 AM

If you need a friend to talk to invite me.

owl0210
by Emerald Member on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:19 AM
He's already proven that he can't be trusted when he cheated on you. Go with your gut it's always right.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:22 AM
Are you there God? It's me Margaret.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jun. 9, 2012 at 10:25 AM

You accidentally posted your diary entry on CafeMom. You should try and fix that.

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