and I am about to tell him he can get the hell out of the house.
We have a little girl. He has been ignoring us. It has been a really shitty year...but I stood by him when most women would have left. I get absolutely no respect anymore. He just makes demands and expects me to toe the line. He very nearly destroyed our family. He only stayed out of jail because of me. Otherwise that is where he would be right now. I busted my ass and gave up a promotion for him.
Instead of being grateful and acting like a family man he is out at the bars partying all the time. Last night when I told him he needed to come home, he told me it didn't matter...because as soon as he is out of the military he is moving back home to his Mama. I am going to tell him today that he is NOT going to stay here until then and make our lives miserable. He can get out now and find his own damn place.