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Grossed out by penis but married to a man. EDIT*

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So, as the title reads, when i look at penis that is not my husbands i get grossed out. However i find every part of a woman to be pleasing to the eye. Im not grossed out by random woman parts, but all these pics that pop up on my blog of penis just makes me cringe! Ive been married to my husband for 3years and i identify as pansexual (not seeing the gender of a person to be the reason of attraction so much as who the person is). I have no clue why this is, just putting it out there, opinions please??? Any one relate?


So, just to clear things up (sum it up for some) this post was written after i kept getting A LOT of UNWANTED and unavoidable porn posts on my tumblr.com fitness/weight loss blog account!!! I was not looking to be flashed by porn/men/sex, did not go looking for it,,,lol,,, 

ALSO this is not a post about being gay or not, just how i feel about viewing the male and female bodies in general. 

And lastly, stop re-posting the mole rat picture, that thing is pretty darn yuck looking ladies! LOLLOLLOL However it is NOT a penis with teeth but a vermin animal. lol.

-NO IM NOT leaving my husband for a woman ANY time soon ok! WOW. 

by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:37 AM
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Ideal_Lady
by Gold Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:55 AM
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When I was dating, I hated when guys would send me a pic of their penis. I don't mind sexting but a pic of a dick, did not turn me on.
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3rd2bedue
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:57 AM
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RIGHT,,,,, same here with the way penis is positioned on the body all erect and such. ITS ALL IN YOUR FACE lol its like a violation to the eyes! lmao! at least with a woman there is a little mystery to explore right!!! lol

Quoting Anonymous:

forgot to add that yes I find the female body beautiful.  The curves are just that.  Plus with a woman if she is naked it's not like you can see her bits unless she is spreading her legs in your face...I feel no need to see that.  But a penis just hangs out there.

Quoting Anonymous:

I am very much straight.  That said penises and balls are pretty funny looking, the sight of them don't turn me on.  I have always said a man is sexier in a pair of boxes than he is naked.  I have been married to DH for 13yrs and we have 4 kids.



tifbrown
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:57 AM
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I can identify with that. I am grossed out by other mens penises. No desire to look at or touch them. I love my husband's though and I love having sex with him. But, while I have never been with a woman I am very attracted to them. I always say if I were to ever cheat he wouldn't have to worry about it being with a man haha.
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3rd2bedue
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:58 AM

No matter the size a dick is a dick and it does not feel special to us women. Men are all proud or whatever, idk, breasts at least appear unique but thats just IMO. 

Quoting Ideal_Lady:

When I was dating, I hated when guys would send me a pic of their penis. I don't mind sexting but a pic of a dick, did not turn me on.


Dinimon
by NoCookiesForYou on Jun. 10, 2012 at 10:59 AM
Lmao I had to look twice


Quoting bmw29:

LOL

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PinkParadox
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:00 AM

Well...why are you looking at penises that aren't your husband's?  Why did you get married if you were more attracted to women.  Sure, lots of people can relate....no one can help you with your decisions.

youngartista
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:01 AM
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I'm a little more detailed about this subject i believe.. I can't stand the site of male genetalia.. UNLESS i want sex.. I actually laugh or gag if i see it otherwise.. If i'm watching a porn, i look at the female .. listen to her.. I don't see the man behind the shaft.. >.> Lol. TMI probably.. But yeah..

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:01 AM
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I LOVE the cock. Y'all are nuts.
sammygrl77
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:01 AM
Me too


Quoting notjstanothrmom:

I feel very much that way. I label myself as bi, but really, I don't think I would ever be with another man if my SO and I split. I don't find them attractive AT ALL.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 10, 2012 at 11:02 AM
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It might be shock value, for one. Uve seen vaginas all ur life, usually more often than penises.

And also, penises are weird looking. Vaginas are kinda awesome. I don't feel like banging ladies, mostly bcuz I'm in a commited relationship to a man, but a lot of penises are weird looking. The more porn I see the more I'm glad I'm w my dhs pretty penis.
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