I make a comfortable living for my son and I. We're able to travel, dine out, shop, he goes to private school, we take at least 3 vacations a year. I don't want to risk being used or being someones sugarmomma.
I'm not anxious to find a fella, but I occasionally do miss having a companion to spend time with.
Edit: Let me explain this. When I first met my husband, we were both starting out. I was in college and he was starting his business. Those were hard times, but that is what you have to look forward to when you're young. You also know that at some point, your hard work and dedication will pay off. And for me, it has. Yes, this guy may be awesome, and I am sure he is attractive. But I don't want to start over. I am in a good place in my life, both financially and emotionally. So if having financial standards make me a gold digger, so be it.