I have a friend who got pregnant by a guy (one night stand) who she was trying to trap. It didn't work and before she even had her first ultrasound the guy told her to abort or rot in hell. She kept her child now she's a single mom. Anyways she keeps posting pictures of dead aborted fetuses and stillborns on Facebook. Within the last few days she's been making statuses about how selfish women who get abortions are. I'm in my early 20s battling infertility with numerous failed fertility treatments already. Yesterday this friend called me to complain about a drug addict friend of hers who just got her toddler removed by cps. My friend made this comment how her friend is selfish because some people out there can't have kids and she can then throws the kid away. I said her friend should have aborted especially since she did Meth her entire pregnancy. So my friend gets all mad saying abortion is wrong and pretty much someone in my position should believe in a baby's right to life. My question is when you're infertile are you mandated to be pro life? I'm neither pro choice or pro life and my friend's obsession with judging other peoples lives irks me. She is far from perfect herself.