So , I got pregnant not purposely. ( I don't like to say as an accident or mistake.. ) I'm 16 , And I bawled my eyes out at first. I was so upset , and just disapointed I guess in myself , feeling that I let everyone down , and just all the emotions that go with it!
Now I'm excited to become a mother , and I'm ready for it. My fiance has a job , I'm geting my GED and going into nursing school etc..
But now , randomly. I get a phone call from my niece ( who is the same age as me. Six months older )
She calls me excitedly telling me shes Pregnant. But she planned it. Purposely. With someone shes not even stable with. Shes not sure whos the dad. And shes excited?! Because she wants us to " go through this together.. " I feel like this is all my fault. What do I do?
She acts as though its a good thing , a thing to be proud of. She doesnt even understand though what shes going to have to go through. She doesn't even take any precautions.. No prenatals either. I'm stressing ( Which I really shouldnt be ) Over this situation. Should I blame Myself for this? Its not like I asked her to do this. Shes so immature , I just dont know how shes going to take care of this baby.
To get to the point I dont know what to do, or say to her. If I could get ANY pov's on this, advice. Anything It'd be so so helpful!!