Does your husband listen to you?

[Anonymous]

Like when it comes to money/investing/spending and what not? Mine does not, he "tells me" what he's going to do and it really pisses me off. Sometimes he doesn't even tell me!

I keep saying I want us to make these decisions together but he just doesn't get it. We've been together 8 years FFS.

[nazgor]

yes, he does.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

bump, I wanna get lots of votes so I can show him this!!

[Anonymous]

Yes. I'm the one who is in charge of the money. If I tell him he can't spend any money he doesn't. He likes it that way.

[ButterMeUp]

Depends. My husband comes from a long line of investors. He for the most part has done nothing but make us money effortlessly. He recently invested in a Buffalo Wild Wingz (lol) as a silent majority partner. It does impeccable business and is already making us money. 

[elleinady]

Yep. Im in charge of the money anyway.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Mine has done nothing but lose money on his investments...

Quoting ButterMeUp:

Depends. My husband comes from a long line of investors. He for the most part has done nothing but make us money effortlessly. He recently invested in a Buffalo Wild Wingz (lol) as a silent majority partner. It does impeccable business and is already making us money. 

[2012ArmyMom]

I can say my dh does listen to me. Sometimes more than I would like. LOL

[LoganAndKennedy]

Quoting elleinady:

Yep. Im in charge of the money anyway.

[NoahandEliza]

I can't imagine not being listened to! There would be hell to pay if he did something with a large sum of money without talking to me first.

[Sunshine257]

Yes he does he always asks me about big purchases or at least mentions it to me to hear if I will say I don't think we can afford it lol. I on the other hand just buy stuff unless of course it is a big purchase.