miserable life -_-
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Im tired of my life. I dont mean my kids. Im just sick of doing the same damn thing EVERYDAY! I neverrr get out of the house. I clean and close my eyes for one second and open them and its like I did nothing. Im frustrated and have soooo much stress on my mind...financially. Im not even interested in sex anymore. My sex drive is completely gonee....
Helppppp. Im gonna fkn shoot myself! (not literally)
You let it happen. Dont blame him when you are letting him take it and go. Holy cow people grow up.
Quoting Anonymous:
Lol this is funny...picture me laughing like a crazy person in a nuthouse...THIS is why im miserable. my mom gave me her truck so I can have. I neverrrrrr have it. My bf takes it to work.im stuck at home everyday with nothing to do and nooo transportation. And on top of that, we never have money..soo I cant get out of the house even when hes outta work. And the thing that bugs me the mostt...he will go to a friends house to chill while I watch the kids like always but he will not watch them soo I cant be alone with my friends :/
I dont even have friends...if I say that to him he will bitch me out that why do I have facebook then...stupidddd! I mean I talk to friends on facebook but I nevrr hang out with anyone :/
Im dying to get out!
Quoting MommaRoseT:
Go out! Take the kids and get out of the house. Even if you just go to a park and let the kids play or McDonalds even. When I get to feeling that way that is what I do. I put the kids in he car and go. Sometimes I don't even have a destination when we leave.
How old are your children? Maybe it is time for you to start giving them chores or at least picking up their own toys. I could see how that would be super frustrating. I think a lot of us worry about money too. I know I sure do. its normals. also I would talk to your SO about your sex drive. mostly I would tell you just to starting ask people to help because It will help ease your stress if something can be lifted off your shoulders
Quoting Anonymous:
i use to workk. And I loved it! But I had to quit cuz I had noo bbysitter and we only have one car (which is mine) & my bf put me down that he makes more than me so he needed it to go to work.
He recently quit his bigggggggg money oil field job cuz he was neverrr home to be with us...so now he makes wayy wayy less and we dont ever have money. And I cant work cuz I dont have money to pay for daycare..now what!?
Quoting dyke_127:Change it. Get a damn job that would help everything your complaining about.
I think we all go through times like this. I definitely do. Try doing something completely different one day. Let the house be messy for one day. I promise it won't hurt you! I have to do it once in a while becuase I am a neat freak, but No ONE else in my house is.
Quoting little.worthen:how old are your kids? what state do you live in? what is the nearest city to you?
Quoting Anonymous:
Nothing is close to walk here and I dont have a double stroller for my kids :/
Plus noo transportation.
Im screwed.
Quoting little.worthen:so look online for stuff in your area to do that is free. seriously. i did it for me and an entire website of stuff to do came up. everything is so close i could walk to it too!
Quoting Anonymous:
Lol this is funny...picture me laughing like a crazy person in a nuthouse...THIS is why im miserable. my mom gave me her truck so I can have. I neverrrrrr have it. My bf takes it to work.im stuck at home everyday with nothing to do and nooo transportation. And on top of that, we never have money..soo I cant get out of the house even when hes outta work. And the thing that bugs me the mostt...he will go to a friends house to chill while I watch the kids like always but he will not watch them soo I cant be alone with my friends :/
I dont even have friends...if I say that to him he will bitch me out that why do I have facebook then...stupidddd! I mean I talk to friends on facebook but I nevrr hang out with anyone :/
Im dying to get out!
Quoting MommaRoseT:
Go out! Take the kids and get out of the house. Even if you just go to a park and let the kids play or McDonalds even. When I get to feeling that way that is what I do. I put the kids in he car and go. Sometimes I don't even have a destination when we leave.
talk to your significant other and tell him you need some time to yourself. It doesn't need to involve spending oodles of money. I go to an auction every friday, sometimes I buy absolutely nothing! I have met some friends there (mostly old people, but thats fine) and it's MY time to let myself enjoy time alone. You just need to set aside some time to get out for a few hours, work around his schedule if you need to...it's so healthy for a relationship to be able to get some alone time.
Umm this is really true...since when is it ok just for mom to watch kids while dad works and does whatever? Step up and tell him you need to get the hell out every once in a while. If he can't do that then maybe you should rethink the relationship and his priorities regarding the relatonship...
Quoting Anonymous:Well he should watch them sometimes too since they are his kids too.
Quoting Anonymous:
Yes they are his kids
Quoting Anonymous:You need to really think about whether or not you want to be with that kind of person. That is very selfish. My dh used to come home when my kids were young and tell me to just go somewhere for awhile and he would take over. He said just go to a friend's, the mall, the bookstore just give yourself a chance to have some time to yourself. I really appreciate that he did that. Are they his kids too?
Quoting Anonymous:
Lol this is funny...picture me laughing like a crazy person in a nuthouse...THIS is why im miserable. my mom gave me her truck so I can have. I neverrrrrr have it. My bf takes it to work.im stuck at home everyday with nothing to do and nooo transportation. And on top of that, we never have money..soo I cant get out of the house even when hes outta work. And the thing that bugs me the mostt...he will go to a friends house to chill while I watch the kids like always but he will not watch them soo I cant be alone with my friends :/
I dont even have friends...if I say that to him he will bitch me out that why do I have facebook then...stupidddd! I mean I talk to friends on facebook but I nevrr hang out with anyone :/
Im dying to get out!
Quoting MommaRoseT:
Go out! Take the kids and get out of the house. Even if you just go to a park and let the kids play or McDonalds even. When I get to feeling that way that is what I do. I put the kids in he car and go. Sometimes I don't even have a destination when we leave.
ITS YOUR TRUCK!
IF HES SUCH AN ASS.. take the truck back and find stuff to do.. its fucked up that he wont give you time. and trust me , if you wwere working it would be SOOO much worse. cuase you still have to do everythin you already do, plus go out and work.
Quoting Anonymous:
Nothing is close to walk here and I dont have a double stroller for my kids :/
Plus noo transportation.
Im screwed.Quoting little.worthen:
so look online for stuff in your area to do that is free. seriously. i did it for me and an entire website of stuff to do came up. everything is so close i could walk to it too!
I think my husband's a sociopath
FIL was arrested for assaulting me