my 3 yr old is very sexual help

[Anonymous]

so my son constantly pulls down his pants in public because he thinks it's funny, when ever he sees a picture of a girl in a magazine the first thing he says is look at boobies and hes got his hands down his pants a lot, i also had my friend and her daughter come over they were playing in the room together until i heard the little girl scream and my son was trying to kiss her in his bed. Im very worried about him going to school. I scold him everytime he's fresh but all he does is laugh.

He's never seen me and dh have sex, or anything, he's always sleeping by that time. I took showers with him before when were in a rush and he's always curious about what my private parts are.

How do i stop this from happening i dont want him being like this at such a young age.

We have given time outs, smacked his hands when we caught them down his pants, and we took toys away, but nothing seems to work. Help please

[Metteba]

You can't stop it...he is going to be molesting at an early age, oops, he's already doing that.  I guess my advice to you, would be to start setting his 'Canteen $$" aside for his prison grub..LOL.

[ccnstanczak]

 maybe its the way you are reacting. the more you say its bad the more curious he gets?

idk.

[WhitleyLyles]

o.O

[ms.momo3]

My son was the same way. My dad said he was just being a boy so I quit reacting and he quit doing it.

[Jamie1972]

You could take him to dr and make sure nothings happened to him. Or ignore his behavior. Cuz attention is attention no matter if its positive or negative. Once u start to ignore this he will stop.

[aidyns_mommy]

He's seen it somewhere. If you want to admit it or not. He's not doing anything wrong, he's curious. He is 3! I am 22 and still curious... its natural. Don't scold, teach. Talk to him about kissing and when/where/who its appropriate. If he wants to touch himselve tell him its okay, in his room or bathroom alone.

[Marie9076]

That was extremely rude and uncalled for. She asked for help not smart ass comments.

Quoting Metteba:

You can't stop it...he is going to be molesting at an early age, oops, he's already doing that.  I guess my advice to you, would be to start setting his 'Canteen $$" aside for his prison grub..LOL.

[DaiTilley]

I wouldn't react when he does things to himself, except maybe to tell him that he needs to do in private. Maybe the reaction & the taboo is making him want to do it more...?

[Marie9076]

I agree. He's seen it somewhere. Are you sure no one has touched him? Just a thought. With my 3yo I tell him he can only touch himself in private and that only Mommy and Daddy can see his private parts. Good luck mom!

Quoting aidyns_mommy:

He's seen it somewhere. If you want to admit it or not. He's not doing anything wrong, he's curious. He is 3! I am 22 and still curious... its natural. Don't scold, teach. Talk to him about kissing and when/where/who its appropriate. If he wants to touch himselve tell him its okay, in his room or bathroom alone.

[Anonymous]

Seriously Metteba? This lady is coming to the group with a serious problem and you're being obnoxious about it?

Quoting Metteba:

You can't stop it...he is going to be molesting at an early age, oops, he's already doing that.  I guess my advice to you, would be to start setting his 'Canteen $$" aside for his prison grub..LOL.