Me and DH just bought a new home. We were renting a huge 7 bedroom home from my great grandma, she was in a nursing home so she rented it to us for very little. Between the 2 of us, we have 6 kids, I have 3 with my late DH, he has 2 and we have 1 together. My great grandma died 3 months ago so my grandma is selling the house so we had to move out. We were very grateful to be able to live there for so long. Anyway, we bought a 4 bedroom home, we have one bedroom, my 2 girls (9 and 11) share a room, my 8 year old boy has his own room and our almost 2 year old has her own room. We couldn't find a 5 or more bedroom that we could afford but his kids only visit us every other weekend so I figured they could sleep on the fold out couch. Then my DH said that he thinks his girls (the two with his ex) should get my 8 year old boy's room when they are here. I don't think that's fair at all, they have their own rooms at their mom's house, my son only has this room as his father passed away. He says his girls shouldnt' have to sleep on the couch, which makes me think "what, his girls are too good for it but my son isn't?" Am I the only one to think that that is unfair?