I don't think it's rude. I think it would be rude to expect visitors to bring a gift. I agree with a pp about there being too much crap already that you have to take home.
Never really thought about it, but my first instinct is that it is not. Then again, I wouldn't find it rude for someone to come to my shower without a gift.
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