I say he was. My ex-husband and I were talking over lunch today. One conversation leads to another anyway he tells me that when he was may 5 or 6, he remembers hanging out with an older male cousin (teenage) and there were always older women around. Well, he tells me that some of these women would kiss him (the way you would kiss your spouse or boyfriend). I told him, he was molested. He says that's not possible if he liked it. Could that possibly explain his obsession with sex and women? (Which obviously led to the divorce).