so damn upset, he keeps disrespecting me

[Anonymous]

IM SI FREAKING PISSED OFF I JUST WANT TO CRY AND PUNCH HIM AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!! OK so me and df has a past ( he has cheated ) and he knows how I feel with the flirting with other females, we have had this talk numerous times!!! Well today we are laying down ( him on his fone ) and I go to pleasure him before work. Well things lead to the bathroom and get out before him, I go to the room and there's his fone ( yep I'm that nosey girlfriend, given what he has done before) so I get it and start looking and WHILE I WAS " PLEASURING " HIM, HE WAS CHATTING WITH ANOTHER WOMEN SAY OHH " YOUR BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT" !! OK first he NEVER tell me nice things. So I message and say " you know he has a women right? " NOTE THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I EVER REPLIED ON HIS CHATTING. He comes to the room and I tell him I thought we had talked about this and there was yo be no more FLIRTING, chatting is OK just no flirts. He sees nothing wrong??? I see it as disrespect. I'm already dealing with PPD and now this I just want to break down :'''( plus I have very low self-esteem so his calling others beautiful hurts a lot! I told him he can get an apartment with his friend and we will go separate ways because I'm tired of dealing with this. This is our ONLY problem ... am I over reacting or should I be pissed?? He uses same excuses saying I just don't understand and that's the way he is! He said " what do you want me to say? SORRY! " didn't mean it and idc if he did. He left for work didn't say a word. Ughhhhh!!!

[Anonymous]

First, never let a man know you have a low self esteem. Second do whatever to get yoursel back to where yoy knew you was the shit. Third,.let his stupid dumb ass go. Be glad you have no kids. Move on. I messed with someone that wad addicted to chatting. It never ends!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I've honestly never felt good about myself.

We do have 2 kids together

Quoting Anonymous:

First, never let a man know you have a low self esteem. Second do whatever to get yoursel back to where yoy knew you was the shit. Third,.let his stupid dumb ass go. Be glad you have no kids. Move on. I messed with someone that wad addicted to chatting. It never ends!

[Anonymous]

Wait a minute,you are having oral sex with man,while he's on the phone with another woman? What's wrong with you? Right now,he would be in the ER with a missing tip off his penis.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

He was on his fone and I didn't know what he was doing I just started ...
I didn't see the chatting untill after. He thought he signed off I guess because he always takes the fone everywhere

Quoting Anonymous:

Wait a minute,you are having oral sex with man,while he's on the phone with another woman? What's wrong with you? Right now,he would be in the ER with a missing tip off his penis.

[Angeldolphine]

He shouldn't be talking to other women on a cell phone period, There should be no friendly texting, no friendly phone calls. Because he has cheated, he should be super protective of that himself. He should try everything he can to avoid being in a compromising situation. Yes, that means NO FLIRTING except with you. Because he doesn't realize that, you can bet he will cheat on you again. Dump his ass.

[momof2boyz21]

Honey you are not over reacting. Leave this guy you can do so much better.I understand that you have low self esteem. After you get ris of him go do something for yourself, It will help you feel better about yourself. Every woman deserves to be told that they a beautiful, if their man can't say that to you then they are an asshole. It is time for you to think about yourself and only yourself.

[ripemango]

he doesn't love you. he will never change. get out of this relationship.

[Anonymous]

Hmmm...... I don't think my fiance can concentrate enough to text anyone when I am going down on him.