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any good reasons 2 stay married after he had an affair?

Anonymous
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is there any good reason to stay married after he cheated?

He said it didn't go on for long.

She gave me contradictory information.

The truth is that there was an affair and they have a daughter.

It looks like this went on for about 7 years.

I don't know what hurts me more: the fact that he cheated or the fact that he didnt use condoms

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:41 AM
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AEP210
by Silver Member on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:43 AM
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Are you seriously asking this?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:44 AM


Quoting AEP210:

Are you seriously asking this?


unfortunately i do.I know a lot of women who put up with affairs but I have been afriad of asking them face to face.

this forum is different

doll0302
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:44 AM
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Only you can make that decision. Good luck.
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baby2zacharias
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:45 AM
I could not stay if it was 7 years. I stayed through a drunken one night stand WHILE we were technically seperated and even that's hard..

Good luck hun
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RhondaVeggie
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:46 AM
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Do you love him? Do you have kids and a home together? Is he otherwise a good husband and father? There are many, many reasons to stay together after infidelity but ultimately it comes down to you. Can you deal with knowing what happened or will your life be better as a single mother?
Love060708kids
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:47 AM

Wow, if it went on THAT long...I wouldn't stay.

dani0007
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:47 AM

Is this betrayal able to wipe out what you have with him? If you stay counseling is mandatory so he can figure out why he is a sicko that got off on a secret life. And so you can heal. I would say you him and her sit down and figure this out. did she know bout u? He cant lie if your both sitting there....... I cant say I would stay with him I would take him for everything hes got and run but thats what I do....... I am so sorry you are going through this I can only imagine the feelings you must be having

heartnhidin
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:47 AM
I would not stay. Especially if he has a child from the affair. I'm sorry you are going through this. Just remember the hurt and pain don't last forever. Hugs
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zianneaaliyah
by 4ever LMFAO on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:48 AM
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I don't care if he had 1000 good qualities, that right there would have me gone 

Quoting Anonymous:

is there any good reason to stay married after he cheated?

He said it didn't go on for long.

She gave me contradictory information.

The truth is that there was an affair and they have a daughter.

It looks like this went on for about 7 years.

I don't know what hurts me more: the fact that he cheated or the fact that he didnt use condoms


  

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Jun. 17, 2012 at 8:48 AM
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 Why are you still with him? Is he worth the pain and heartache you feel?

7 years is ridiculous. Leave his ass. he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Screw that

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