For mothersday I didn't even get a card, we went out to dinner two days later and it was HIS favorite sportsbar.
It didn't really bother me and I wanted to make him happy on his day today.
I got him some new steel toed work boots, an iTunes gift card, a card and some lingerie for me, I thought he would be excited and happy.
When he opened his gift, he looks at the work boots (his old one have holes in them and hurt his feet, I thought he'd be happy to have new ones) and said "huh, new shoes..."
He did say that he liked the iTunes gift card, when he saw the lingerie he said "wow, somebody sure spent a lot of money on herself".......
I don't know why but that hurt, it was supposed to be a surprise for him..
But those coments just really got to me..
I wanted to make his day special and good and now I don't even want to look at him.
I know I'm being oversensitive but I honestly can not explain why him saying that hurt so much...
UPDATE wow, I was not expecting this many responses! No way can I asnwer all of them so ill do a quick summary here.
So DH asked me why I was so upset and I finally told him.
He said he loves the boots and appreciates the fact that I thought of something he needs.
He said that he wasn't thinking about the lingerie thing and that it wasn't how he meant it. He assured me he loves every piece of his gift.
I did not bring up mothersday, but he did.
"I wish I would have done more for you on mothersday..."
That's right, feel bad! Lol.
Anyways, he took ME out to dinner last night, when we got home he said he had to run out real quick and came back with a new cell phone case and a flower bouquet for me.
It was very nice and it kind of made it a day for the both of us.