The woman that most women with a SO HATE.

[Anonymous]

I am the woman most wives/GFs HATE. I am the girl that works with only guys every day and we talk about sex often. I probably know more about your sex life then I would ever actually want too. I am the girl that will be at the bar with them watching the game or the one tossing a baseball/football around. I am attractive and flirty, but don't want anything from your DH or SO. I laugh when a wife or GF makes their SO come home cause I am hanging out. I find it so funny when a wife thinks I am a threat to her relationship or marriage. You have friends that are girls and I have friends that are guys. I choose to be friends with guys because girls are to caddy and girly for me. I can't stand it. I am girly and will wear a dress, but don't mind if I get dirty from tossing a football around. I would rather be at a pro football game then a play. Some women need to lighten up and realize that just because there is a girl that your SO is friends with doesn't mean she wants to sleep with him. I would never sleep with someone that has a SO. 

[Ginnymarie33]

Who gives a shit. You have more self esteem issues than you think you do.

[Anonymous]

I bet you're ugly as fuck too.

[Anonymous]

Seems like you enjoy taunting other women.  I wouldn't want to make any one's wife or SO feel the way you seem to enjoy to.  Per Wikipedia

A taunt is a battle cry, a method in hand-to-hand combat, sarcastic remark, gesture, or insult intended to demoralize the recipient, or to anger them and encourage reactionary behaviors without thinking.^{[citation needed]} Taunting can exist as a form of social competition to gain control of the target's cultural capital (i.e. status).^{[citation needed]} In sociological theory, the control of the three social capitals is used to produce an advantage in the social hierarchy as to enforce one's own position in relation to others. Taunting is committed by either directly bullying, or indirectly encouraging others to bully the target. It is also possible to give a response of the same kind, to ensure one's own status. It can be compared to fighting words and trash-talk.

You're nothing but a bully

[TurboMom81]

My husband hates people, bars, and sports so I'm good!

[annismom10]

I hate mom confessions. If you're going to say silly, vain, misspelled things, don't hide behind anon. Luckily my husband doesn't go to bars or watch sports, or i'd have to worry about that rare bird of a woman, the i-need-so-much-attention-i-pretend-i'm-one-of-the-boys. I very much doubt they see you as a "friend" they see you as someone they haven't fucked yet. You're probably a back burner. Women don't like you because even in a post you're acting holier than thou and a real woman doesn't need friends like you. But you can keep thinking you're special and tough, and you don't want to be friends with women, not that they wouldn't bother with you.

[OfcMommy]

I can understand the general message, but the delivery was completely wrong and came off way too agressive, which is probably why most of the responses are so defensive.  Having said that, I too am a "guys" girl.  I work in law enforcement and 95% of my co-workers are male.  I've been with my husband, also a cop with a different department, for 23 years and happily married for 13.  I'm definitely not interested in any of my co-workers.  However, I think the women who believe their SO doesn't talk about sex with other women at work are very naive.  There is not one single man I work with who hasn't talked about sex, in graphic detail, with myself or other female officers.  Sometimes they're looking for advice, sometimes they're just looking to lighten the mood of a very stressful day.  I was actually shocked to see how often the topic of sex came up on a daily basis, even by the most reserved and happily married men.  It didn't mean they were looking to cheat on their wives, though I'd be lying if I said I wasn't approached in that manner.  I don't think there's anything wrong with talking or innocent flirting, its natural.  If the woman is just a friend and has self respect, she'll never cross the line out of respect for her friends' relationship.

[dorkish_face]

I don't see anything wrong with this post. Anon or not. 

I guess because I'm the same way, and don't really care what others think. I'd never mess around with someone else's SO but, I would hang out. 

*shurgs*

I do it with my neighbors. 

[Anonymous]

why do you ASSume she is fat?

[nikkireneewest]

LOL, if a man with a wife and kids has time to hang out with you then he isn't a man I would want to be with. He's not a man. A man respects his family period. His SO is offering him her heart, her body, her financial, emotional and physical freedom and he would trade that for a chick that can juggle balls and gossip. Good Luck to him and you my friend, because with loose moralled pansy men like that for friends who needs enemies.

[amanda81919]

Just wondering why are you hanging out with married men? And/or why are they hanging out with you instead of being with their families? My guess is those guys are shitty to begin with. Oh well.