I am the woman most wives/GFs HATE. I am the girl that works with only guys every day and we talk about sex often. I probably know more about your sex life then I would ever actually want too. I am the girl that will be at the bar with them watching the game or the one tossing a baseball/football around. I am attractive and flirty, but don't want anything from your DH or SO. I laugh when a wife or GF makes their SO come home cause I am hanging out. I find it so funny when a wife thinks I am a threat to her relationship or marriage. You have friends that are girls and I have friends that are guys. I choose to be friends with guys because girls are to caddy and girly for me. I can't stand it. I am girly and will wear a dress, but don't mind if I get dirty from tossing a football around. I would rather be at a pro football game then a play. Some women need to lighten up and realize that just because there is a girl that your SO is friends with doesn't mean she wants to sleep with him. I would never sleep with someone that has a SO.