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The woman that most women with a SO HATE.

Anonymous
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I am the woman most wives/GFs HATE. I am the girl that works with only guys every day and we talk about sex often. I probably know more about your sex life then I would ever actually want too. I am the girl that will be at the bar with them watching the game or the one tossing a baseball/football around. I am attractive and flirty, but don't want anything from your DH or SO. I laugh when a wife or GF makes their SO come home cause I am hanging out. I find it so funny when a wife thinks I am a threat to her relationship or marriage. You have friends that are girls and I have friends that are guys. I choose to be friends with guys because girls are to caddy and girly for me. I can't stand it. I am girly and will wear a dress, but don't mind if I get dirty from tossing a football around. I would rather be at a pro football game then a play. Some women need to lighten up and realize that just because there is a girl that your SO is friends with doesn't mean she wants to sleep with him. I would never sleep with someone that has a SO. 
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 19, 2012 at 12:15 PM
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Pink.Frosting
by Gold Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:34 PM
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Well dearie, I don't hate you because I know for a fact my husband isn't hanging around with you or your type. He works a very good job from home and we choose to spend out free time together, not apart. So, eh...I don't really care what you do.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:35 PM

Ive been done with you since you cant prove anything to me. I just like to get you replying back to me. Im bored at the moment. :) Your really keeping me entertained for the moment. But I do have other things to do in a bit, so I will be done then. BTW pregnant isnt really sexy, so keep an eye on your SO until you deliver and then probably another year after that until you get your body back, IF you can. 

Quoting teenmomandpr587:

its realistic not realitic sweety. 

You are still replying back.............

He looks but hes not looking for version 2.0 like you make it seem. 

:) are you done yet? 

Quoting Anonymous:

Its there, not their. And thats my daughters wall color and its very pretty. I dont worry about my SO, I am perfectly content with our relationship thank you very much.We have been together for over 9 years and I have never had a problem with him talking to other women and he has never cheated on me. I just think its funny how you women become so damn defensive about the deal THINKING your SO's dont LOOK and talk to other women. Thats just crazy. Be realitic here. Your not bothering me at all. It takes  A LOT more then that to bother me sweetie. Your the one responded to my reply. 

Quoting teenmomandpr587:

still 6 months pregnant and i dont need to prove anything to you sweety :) 

You let some anonymous person on the internet bother you so i win yay!!!

But i dont have some inane belief that my husband is always looking for better, he loves me obviously, though your self esteem is low enough to believe your boyfriend is always looking for better. When he talks to other women i know it isnt because hes looking for the version 2.0 of me. 

by the way i would do something about that ugly wall color you have their. 

We still forgive you for pretending to know more about our husbands than we do. 

:)) i dont need to hide behind anonymous anymore lol. 

Quoting Anonymous:

excuses, excuses please. give me a break. 

My PROOF, and I didnt have to google honey. Sorry

I do realize I put the wrong date on the paper....Thought it was Monday! But none the less, i can always re-do it.

I do 

Quoting Anonymous:

Im pregnant so......

im sure it would be your body to google and photoshop do wonders. My husband talks to other women, not for any other reason but work though, unless its the one female friend we both have, he doesnt need to find better, he can get what he wants from me. Not all guys can do better when they know they love their wife and have children with her and a family which is more imporant then finding "better" or that local bar slut who sucks all the guys dicks for coke. Yea shes pretty hot but shes still just a bar slut that everyone laughs at behind her back when she has the herpa derp.  

so please dont talk shit without knowing the fact sweetiepie. 

We forgive you though. 

:)))

Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry, FAR from being fat. Never would I let myself go like that. I bet you are though. Yikes. I dont think all husbands cheat. I never once said that. I said they can always find better and they talk to other women. You became all defensive for some reason. I can post a picture of MY body to prove it. So please, dont talk shit before you know facts :)

Quoting Anonymous:

You must be one of those ladies who believes all husbands cheat to. 

Dont be jealous because my husband still finds me attractive and yours thinks your fat and nasty, i just didnt let myself go after getting married and having kids. 

:))

Quoting Anonymous:

haha. Keep dreaming honey.

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

LOL @ all these women getting mad at you. I dont mind. If my SO wants to hang out with a woman, so what. I trust him. And if he would possibly do something  he was supposed to, then im done . Its that simple. You can not control a man. They TALK to other women, I dont care what you ladies want to THINK. Its true. EVERY man is attraced to OTHER women. Your NOT the hottest thing out there. There is ALWAYS better. Sorry to burst your bubble girls. Get over it.

My husband is attracted to women who know how to spell and can use a spell check. He does think im the hottest thing in my town obviously you have low self esteem thats okay we forgive you :). 










she_walk_softly
by Platinum Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:35 PM
Sounds like you want a lot of male attention..Real friendships (not checking out you ass friendships) happen between woman IMO.But what ever makes you happy.
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bluespagan
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:36 PM

 Eh I am that girl who can hang out with the guys and also get all cleaned up.  If the guys I hang out with have a SO or DW then I take the initiative and I start a conversation with them and let them know, no directly, that I am not a threat.  While I don't enjoy the girly stuff I do take a step back and do the girly things with them so they know that he is my friend and whoever is with him (SO or DW) is my friend as well.

TattoodMommy19
by Platinum Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:37 PM

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LovingSAHMommy
by Gold Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:38 PM
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I wouldn't feel threatened by you at all. You're the type of woman that can't possibly compete with me where my husband is concerned. :)

LoriDeen
by Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:40 PM
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I'd be more impressed if you used the proper words in your little speech. It's 'catty,' not 'caddy.' You should also look up how to use the words "then" and than" properly. They are not interchangable.

mik1of3
by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:40 PM
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And some women are more than a little full of themselves, eh..and pigeonwhole "all" women just like she's pigeonholing herself.

I don't get jealous.  I don't worry about my DH.  Despite being the 'bad boy' in our neighborhood, he doesn't hang around single women, he doesn't hang out in a bar (sports or otherwise), he's not into pro-sports except Nascar, and we don't discuss our sex lives with casual friends.  We barely discuss it with our best friends.  We think to do so is disrespectful of each other.  I have no problem telling my BFF my hubby is a wonderful lover, but I think to give her details is, in a way, bringing her into our marriage bed.  And while I love my BFF, I don't love her THAT much!  

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:41 PM
I wouldn't hate you because you like doing guy things or because you like hanging out with guys. I would hate you because you think that I hate you. If your not doing anything wrong why would you think anyone would hate you??? Ugh get over yourself. And for the record if my dh was talking about our sex life to another girl I would be pissed at him not the girl.
LiliM
by Gold Member on Jun. 19, 2012 at 3:42 PM
If thinking women hate you makes you feel good, have at it. You obviously need to be able to do so.

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