Evil SM confession. No i dont want to take care of your kids all summer... update
My SO has filed a CS modification, while they were having papers drawn up, BM wanted to change the custody arrangements around. We are a 50/50 split. She wants week on/week off during the summer. My SO agreed to it with me on the fence about it.
My confession. I dont want them here week on/week off. Its a week on for me as Im home and the child care falls to me. Id rather stick to the original schedule, which would give me breaks in between instead of having them here solid week. Its stated in the new paperwork that its a trial basis, and that if either party has a problem maintaining said schedule, we would revert back to old schedule. I think I will be bowing out after a couple of tries.
I have my own kids to take care of, a part time night job and a 4 month old baby that I watch during the week. I dont want to be expected to cater to my SKs all week long all day long, and chauffer them here there and everywhere with two babies in tow. In no way do I dislike them at all.
Thats my evil stepmom confession.
So after this whole mess and expecting SM to just do, BM wants to change the schedule again. Even going as far as texting me and begging me to talk to my SO about rearranging things. HAHAHAHAHAHA. No fucking way.