See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Little background. When I was 19 I got pregnant by my ex who beat me, raped me and fucked with my head. I left him 2 days after my daughter was born. She was lucky to be born, and to even be here without an issues. When she was 6 months old, my husband came into our life. He has been daddy pretty much since day one. She is now 5. He is adopting her through the step parent adoption. Her pos bio dad has not seen her since the day we left let alone has he even made any attempt to see her. We are almost finished with the adoption stuff and I told the lady who came that I do not plan to tell Lexi about her bio dad. Why do I need to when she has her daddy? Why should I have to tell her about someone sooo fucked up that could have killed her when I was pregnant by using me as a punching bag? The lady called me today, woke me up from my nap, to tell me that she is not going to approve myhome study because they feel it is wrong that I wont tell her about her bio dad. I mean I flat out told the lady everything I have said here and she just kept arguing with me. She had the nerve to tell me, 'well when she turns 14 and she goes wild because you didnt tell her about her bio dad... Somebody is GOING to tell her!' etc. Im calling my lawyer in the morning.. he's going to be pissed. Ive had nothing but trouble from this woman.
But, do you think it is wrong of me to not tell my daughter her daddy isnt her bio dad?