Moms who had kids first or lived w/ a partner then got married......

[Anonymous]

can you please answer this question i am very curious. When you both got married did anything change in your relationship? Other than your last name? I have been wondering for a while since SO and i have been talking about marriage. 

Did you guys go home the next day and go back to your usual routine like nothing?

[talktojonell]

We went on our honeymoon.

Then back to the routine.

Kept my name thank you.

[So.Ill.Mama]

We got married at the court house. Nothing changed.

[Marie9076]

Nothing changed but my name. Out everyday routine was still the same. I just had to go through the hassle of changing all my stuff and I started being referred to as his wife instead of his girlfriend. Good luck!

[myperfect4inok]

Nothing changed in our relationship or lives.
I was 5 months pregnant when I got married.

[IreneCarroll]

Nothing changed

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

oh thats cool i am debating whether i should keep my name or not....

Quoting talktojonell:

We went on our honeymoon.

Then back to the routine.

Kept my name thank you.

[MamaJess9]

Same except I changed my name. We already had a joint bank account, everything was in both our names, etc.

Quoting talktojonell:

We went on our honeymoon.



Then back to the routine.



Kept my name thank you.

[mrsbrimer]

Well a lot changed kinda but not pur relationship .. but i got my name changed. Added on his bank account.. health insurance

[darmarie88]

I lived with my husband 2 years before we got married...and not a thing changed after we got married.  There was a new found respect and a deeper love because our vows meant so much to us.  We went right back to our usual routine just like the day before we got married!

[Lyssa0587]

I was more excited knowing we were married...it felt different to me...LOL. I kinda felt like a little school girl.