dh got mad because he found out i can pleasure myself

[sweetieiv]

For a while now i have been saying on here how my dh and i only have sex once a month if that. So some of you said i should just go out and buy a vibrator. Well i did and OMG thanks girls for that advice. Anyways i used it for the second time today (got it on thursday) and i left it in the sink to dry after i rinsed it. I went to the kitchen and my dh said he was leaving for work but right before he stormed out the door he yelled at me that the next time i leave that nasty ass thing laying around he would throw it away. I told him to calm down and we can talk about this but he simply stormed out just like that and he looked so furious. Here's my confusion so he doesn't want to have sex with me but yet if i masturbate he gets mad? So what am i suppose to do? Does anyones dh or so get mad if you masturbate?

[Lachrymose]

I think he feels threatened.. hopefully you two can talk it out.  :/  Maybe he doesn't like the idea that he isn't in the mood more often.. he feels like less of a man already and now you've got that thing in there.. lol.  But geez.. flipping out like that and calling it nasty..

It's time for a sit down!  :)

[Bgbd]

He sounds like a douche

[Anonymous]

My husband could care less. It actually is a turn on for him thouhg I think that sometimes after sex he gets annoyed when I masturbate to get a few extra orgasms in before I get out of bed. I think it's orgasm envy, lol. He can only have 1 and I have about 20-30. I'd be jealous too. I don't have a vibrator though and if I did I certainly wouldn't leave it in the sink to dry.

[talktojonell]

God forbid you say Oh God if he isn't involved.

[justone_jen]

Something like that would make my mate late to work, lol. He'd be turned on.

[JocelynsMommy30]

I have no advice. SO finds it to be a turn on when I do it.

[sonnyswoman75]

Well just keep at it until he decides to give you some lol

[karats]

lol he's mad!

[StarrTurner]

mine doesnt but he wants to watch and that makes me uncomfortable

[.not.angel.]

I'd be mad about a dirty dildo in my sink too.

Quoting karats:

lol he's mad!