My husband refers to me being the 'cool' wife along with some of his friends from work. I don't mind if they come over and hang out all night...as long as the TV or stereo isn't too loud. I don't bitch at him for stupid tedious stuff...if something needs to get done, I am capable of getting it done most of the time myself. I don't get mad if he goes out with his guy friends...I don't care if he smokes weed...I just don't want to see it, smell it, or anywhere in the house. If I know his friends are over, I cook for everyone. Not sure how this makes me the 'cool' wife, but I'll take it....lol...what kind of wife are you?