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Religious Conversion

Anonymous
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Sorry if this has been done before & all replies can be anon if you like, but I'm genuinely curious: IF you've converted (or dropped religion all together), what religion were you previously, what do you practice now (if anything), & what made you change?
Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 10:04 AM
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Mackenzie40
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:33 PM

I really have great family. 

I have known other people who convert to either another religion or atheism and have had a much harder time with their family members...it's very sad.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm glad that most of them were supportive or at least not intolerant. :) It seems like, when one person has the courage to demonstrate who they really are (be it with religion, lack of, or anything else, really), others are inspired to do the same. Authenticity FTW! :)


Quoting Mackenzie40:

I was raised protestant and am now an atheist ( for years ) . Most of my family was okay with this change and some have since come out as atheists as well.



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:33 PM
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You can certainly have beliefs without a label or church. I wish you well on your journey. :)


Quoting Itzy0ll0tl:

I was catholic, and know I think I am religion free...


I LOVE GOD... but the humans who preach in his name should do a better job, at living by what they preach,  thanby collecting the people's money and raping little kids...


and I droped out of the religion because of pedophilia :(


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:34 PM
It *is*. I wholly agree with you on that.


Quoting Mackenzie40:

I really have great family. 

I have known other people who convert to either another religion or atheism and have had a much harder time with their family members...it's very sad.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm glad that most of them were supportive or at least not intolerant. :) It seems like, when one person has the courage to demonstrate who they really are (be it with religion, lack of, or anything else, really), others are inspired to do the same. Authenticity FTW! :)





Quoting Mackenzie40:

I was raised protestant and am now an atheist ( for years ) . Most of my family was okay with this change and some have since come out as atheists as well.





Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:36 PM
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YES! Education, I believe, goes a looooooong ways towards tolerance & acceptance.


Quoting Anonymous:

Thanks and yes it is harder when family and friends do not agree or are not comfortable with the changes. Also when they dont understand or know about the thing that we now follow. DH and I made sure they recieved the right information about it and made sure they knew that we were not sacrificing children or animals and that they also knew we were not going to isolate ourselves or our children from them. The more they know the less issues we had.

Quoting Anonymous:

I think that's great! :) A lot of times, I think conversion is difficult on people primarily because of intolerance from family and friends. So glad to hear that yours were very supportive. :)





Quoting Anonymous:

None. Actually neither of mine or my husbands family nor our friends have had any aversion to our choice. In fact they are very supportive. I think it is because we still value our family and our time with our family. We come first and everyone else is second. They respect that.



PS: I wanted to add that DH and I were both raised Mormon.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm glad you've found what resonates with you. :) Have you faced any adversity since converting, among family or friends?








Quoting Anonymous:

I was born and raised Mormon. I am now a practicing Laveyan Satanist.









TarotMommy
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:39 PM

 I was Christian. Now I am spiritually eclectic. I think God is too big for just one religion. :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:41 PM
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"Spiritually eclectic" ... I like that! :)


Quoting TarotMommy:

 I was Christian. Now I am spiritually eclectic. I think God is too big for just one religion. :)


jillianmayasmom
by Silver Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 10:44 AM
He had to take classes for a long time. At the end of his studies, he went before a panel of, I think 3 people, to answer questions to show that he did study and understood what Judaism is. After that, he was immersed in the mikvah.
My sister never asked him to convert and was completely surprise when he said he wanted to. They had been married for 7 or 8 years already when he told her he was converting.


Quoting poshkat:

What did he have to do to convert? My mother begged me to have dh convert when we got married and I said no. I refused to have him convert because I didn't see the need



Quoting Anonymous:

I haven't changed religions but my brother in law did. He was Catholic and converted to Judaism, which is what we are.

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jillianmayasmom
by Silver Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 10:45 AM
It was about 2 and a half to 3 years but it doesn't have to be that long.


Quoting Anonymous:

Interesting! I've heard that it's a difficult process to convert to Judaism, but I admit I know nothing about it. Was it a long process for him?




Quoting Anonymous:

I haven't changed religions but my brother in law did. He was Catholic and converted to Judaism, which is what we are.


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 24, 2012 at 10:47 AM
I really wasn't anything before I just believed in god, then at about 13 decided I was athiest couldn't be happier, I find the whole religion thing to be pointless.
mommysangelface
by Ruby Member on Jun. 24, 2012 at 10:47 AM
Brought up Christian.was never comfortable with it. To many things don't make sense. Im pagan now. i'm happier.
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