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I'm taking HER kids and she can't stop me -- EDIT in original

Anonymous
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I have a husband with two kids from a marriage before ours, we have one child together.

this summer he's going to be working overseas quite a bit, and will hardly be here, and so I am going to be taking the stepkids.  The mother doesn't work, she's remarried, but we're not going to say anything about  my husband not being home.  I will be taking the kids for all of his times,  which is every weekend Friday to Monday AM,  and two solid weeks in the summer.  At this point, he might not be around at all this summer, we have no idea when he can even be back, so I'm just going to take all the time so the mother doesn't have them and she won't be the wiser!

We're going to do so many cool and fun things, i have always wanted more kids, and this is the best way to do it!  She can suffer the nine months per kid, the diapers, the puke, the sleepless nights,  and i will get to do the fun stuff, even without  my husband around.  I don't think she should even be their mother, I'm much better, smarter, way more fun,  we have more money, I don't have to work, and I think they'll like being with me more because of all the activities I'm planning on taking them to.   First thing this weekend coming up is mani's and hair appointments and a 'spa day' followed by a shopping spree at Justice!  I'm really into bonding with the girls over silly frivolous stuff that's just totally fun, and there's no way they can do with their mother!

One of my friends said I'm being sneaky by not telling the mother that the father won't even be in the country and I will have them all to myself, but hey -- they're my kids too!  she can go to hell  !!

Posting annon because she might be on CafeMom!  YIKES!  I don't want her to know about  my plans!

 

EDIT to this:  I am not taking more time, I'm taking his legal times.  The mother won't have them any less than she does now.  They will skype with him every day and call, he will talk to them, just not be there in person.  what's the big deal?

 

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 1:53 PM
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razmatazthespaz
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:11 PM

 you are a really annoying troll!

 or a really fucked up person!

 good luck with whatever i guess!

ihave1
by Platinum Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:12 PM

 THE BIG DEAL IS YOU ARE A SNEAKY PERSON, WHO IS TRYING TO BUY THOSE KIDS LOVE.    GOOD LUCK W/ ALL THAT.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:12 PM


Quoting Bgbd:

You do realize that the bm has right of first refusal for any visitation time in which bd will not be present. You can cause him to have his visitation supervised with this scam you're so gleefully pulling


There is no such thing in the court order and what they agreed to do.  It is not a scam, he is not required to tell her when he's leaving the country or any of that stuff. 

shannonw79
by Bronze Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:12 PM
You have to be a troll. Or mentally ill.
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amanda_mom89
by Gold Member on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM
Troll. I bet you're the biomom.

Then again..I've bumped into some really ignorant stepmoms on here.

And I say that as a stepmom.
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razmatazthespaz
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM

 or both....

Quoting shannonw79:

You have to be a troll. Or mentally ill.

 

motherof33333
by on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM

Hey dont judge her alot of people got issues,some more then others LOL

fallenangel_353
by Nikki on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM
Lady first of all... all of the fun stuff in the world doesn't make a child pick someone else over mom..
Just doesn't happen.. you can never compete with mom... you sound like a sicko tbh and I hope mom never leaves you alone with her children.. you need help. Just saying
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM
How cute a BM troll making a post of how she thinks stepmom wants to steal her child!
Audreesmommy757
by Diana on Jun. 20, 2012 at 2:13 PM

um...dont you think the kids will say something like why isnt daddy there?...sounds like you need some healp because even though hes not around if you are married its legally bound that you have the kids...shes gonna find out one way or another

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