I would say...whatever! It's her life. Perhaps she loves being a mom? Perhaps she wasn't loved enough and feels that having kids will make her feel loved? Perhaps she likes being on welfare? Or maybe she made some bad decisions, but loves her kids, and is trying her best?
I mean, it's not really our place to judge until we know all the facts. And, even then, that can be risky. I just think, if she loves her babies, she cares for them...that's really all that matters, right?
Quoting stephjohn:this is "dh" and I hate this site but she went out and left the page open and I saw this comment so I have to reply. You should know before you call her things that arent true that the oldest are my 4 yr old twin girls from a previous relationship who haven't seen thier bio mom since they were 18 months. They call my wonderful wife mom because they dont know thier real one (and better off for it). Show me another 20 yr old who would take on twin girls and raise them as her own. You people have nothing better to do than bash people you don't even know and most of you are illiterate.
I could be wrong, but this post wasn't about her. I do believe she chimed in that she takes care of 4 kids at the age of 20. Good for you guys. That is a big responsibility. I think the OP is just touching on why would some women, at such a young age continue to get pregnant.
I am 19, pregnant with number four. All have the same father, who is my husband and hes the only person I have been with. You can bash away. If she can afford it, and is doing fine with all her kids, why does it really matter what goes on in her life?
Quoting Young_Hot_Mamma:I am 19, pregnant with number four. All have the same father, who is my husband and hes the only person I have been with. You can bash away. If she can afford it, and is doing fine with all her kids, why does it really matter what goes on in her life?
According to your ticker, you married at 12....or is that how long you have known your husband?
Quoting Anonymous:when you assume you make an ass of you.
Its not your life, mind your business.
Thats how long I have been with my husband, we don't go by marriage really since marriage and being together really isn't any different for us. We have been married for, 4 years this coming August.
I guess I could change the ticker if its easier to understand lol.
Quoting iamcafemom83:Quoting Young_Hot_Mamma:I am 19, pregnant with number four. All have the same father, who is my husband and hes the only person I have been with. You can bash away. If she can afford it, and is doing fine with all her kids, why does it really matter what goes on in her life?
According to your ticker, you married at 12....or is that how long you have known your husband?
what to do when the special needs kid is the bully?
Have you ever kept a secret from your spouse?