You may someday be one of them............so don't judge.
I saw a post from June 16th 2012. It went something along the lines of the woman hated her stepkids and hated her husbands ex wife. She maybe went a little to far by saying that her SD was a little Bitch, she is a child of course. I saw a lot of woman putting her down and calling her stupid. But for those of you are single moms (i was once), have never dated a man with kids, or do not have to deal with a BM on the other side of your relationship, you have no room to put down this lady. Before I had my oldest daughter I dated a man who had two kids from a previous marraige. OMG! I swore of men with kids for life. The kids were very spoiled being the children of divorce. They threw tantrums and were very disrespectful. The BM was crazy. She hated me before I even got a chance. I tried my hardest with those kids and took care of them as best as I knew how. Just when I thought we were progressing on a healthy relationship the BM would feed them nonsense and I was again being hated. I was out. Never again would I date a man with kids and preached my experience to all that would hear.
I got into a different relationship and I had my own daughter. A year after she was born it didn't work out so we called it quits. And I was the "Phsyco BM" on the other side. I swore I would not be one of those BM's who caused my children to hate an adult because I coudn't handle it. And even though it hurt me as hell to let her go every other weekend to spend time with my ex and his new girlfriend I honestly knew this woman was taking care of her. DD was happy and that's all that mattered. I found myself the man of my dreams and we got married and now I have two other children from him. The father of my daughter and his wife get along with us and work with us so we can have a civil relationship for the sake of my daughter. I get along well with his new wife and recently sent a gift with my daughter since her step mom is expecting a little boy. I would still swear off men with kids. Not everyone can be like me. LOL! But I chalk that up to the fact that I experienced what it was like to be the hated woman on the other side.
My point is, don't judge until you have been on the other side.